In 1954 Julion B Rotter, studying how people’s
behavior and attitudes define the outcomes of their lives, came up with the
concept of ‘Locus of Control’. ‘Locus of control’ defines the degree to
which one perceives that outcomes in the life are the result of their own
behaviors, or because of the action of forces that are external to him/her.
This produces a continuum with external locus at one end and internal locus on
the other end.
Normally, people with an ‘internal locus’ of control
believe that whatever happens in life, be it good or bad, is mostly out of their own doing—out of
“controllable factors such as one’s attitude, preparation, and effort”. They
have strong inclination to believe that they are the ones who are primarily
responsible to make or mar their lives. They are at ease in accepting the fact
that at times bad things happen for no fault of theirs. They are also quick in
attempting to erase or reverse the ‘fallout’ of such bad situations. Similarly,
they also accept that sometimes good things just fall in their lap from
nowhere. Whenever such things happen they do make the best use of them. They
believe that they are the masters of themselves. Such people are easily ‘motivate-able’,
for they have an extra layer of fortitude to bounce back from stress and move
forward. People driven by ‘internal locus of control’ are usually inquisitive,
and tend to work harder, and persevere longer to achieve what they aim at.
One classic example of such tribe who are known to
take charge of themselves is Christopher Reeve, the American film actor of the
Superman fame of late 70s. In May 1995, he
met with an accident—fell off his horse and broke his neck, and was
instantly paralyzed from the neck down—which was a very close call. Had he
landed differently, even by a millimeter in one direction, he wouldn’t have
been injured. A millimeter the other way and he would have died. He had a 40%
chance of surviving his surgery during which his head was literally reattached
to his spine. During surgery he nearly
died because of drug reaction.
At that time scientists didn’t yet understand how to
regenerate the spinal cord. He was told that he can never again move below his
shoulders and there would absolutely be no further improvement. His life
expectancy at 42 years of age was said to be at best, six to seven more years.
Realizing the gravity of his situation, Reeve wondered to his wife Dana, if
“maybe we should just let me go.” But his wife didn’t accept it: “But you’re
still you and I love you.” And these words gave him the will to live. He pulled
up courage to refuse to accept the scientist’s absolutes and instead said to
himself: “… the glass is half full and simply try to go forward”.
He then decided to go to a rehab and “make the
absolute best of it.” Challenging himself physically for countless months, he
exercised very hard. At the same time he made public appearances inviting more
scientists into neurological research to more quickly discover a cure to the
injured spinal cord. He created the Christopher Reeve Foundation in 1966 to
raise research money and provide grants to local agencies which focus on
quality of life for the disabled.
Deciding that people might like to hear his story, he started showing up
in public for “the people to gawk at his incapacity”, and share the lessons
learned.
After five years of his injury, he suddenly found he
could move his left hand and left index finger. He then ramped up the
exercise. He then could put his foot on
someone’s shoulder, bend his knees and push his legs. He could thus prove right
the theory of Dr. John McDonald of Washington University which states that if a
spinal cord injured patient is put on exercise as soon as possible, it will help
in recovery. That aside, “one of the
most important things that Reeve did for many people was… he showed them that
there is life after a spinal cord injury or after a stroke…”
In his public appearances he used to say that one of
the keys to going ahead and conquering fear—the fear of loss of control—is to
ignore one’s moods. The wheel chair-bound screen ‘superman’ used to exhort the
injured thus: “Ignore it when you felt you really didn’t want to do whatever
you had to do today.” By staying in the
moment regardless of how one actually feels, he says, one would leave oneself
open for surprises, on both, a big and a small scale. Of course, being fearless
did not guarantee that one gets all one wanted. All that Reeve meant is: “it
can satisfy you to know you did something for the world or just for your
family”.
Reeve also found that the key to fearlessness is the
phrase “no matter what”. “Keep that in mind”, he advised his audience. He went
on saying: “It is truly amazing what we can do by allowing the spirit and mind
to flourish. Our capabilities go way beyond our understanding. Get past the
clutter, the noise inside you that says, ‘I can’t, I can’t, I’m not good
enough, I don’t feel like it, I’m sick, I don’t want to. That is just like a
static on a radio”, Reeve asserted. “Just clear the channel, find good
reception, and you will be amazed by what you can do.”
Now the question is: What made Reeve undertake such an
arduous journey? The answer, perhaps,
is: his longing to show his fellow quadriplegics that “there is life after a
spinal cord injury or after a stroke…one doesn’t have to sit in the dark
feeling sorry for oneself.” This is perhaps what Maslow must have had in mind
when he said that the behavior of human beings is but an expression of their
drive for satisfying their felt needs. There is another important lesson to be
learnt from the life of Reeve: People driven by ‘internal locus’ of control
have a better chance to live meaningfully.
As against people like Christopher Reeve, there are
another set of people who, driven by ‘external locus of control’, primarily
believe that life is a series of random-chance occurrences. They believe that
things happen mostly because of “uncontrollable factors such as the
environment, other people or a higher power”. This strategy may sound good so
far as a coping technique against failures in life. But such an attitude
dissipates the fighting spirit among people. They, accepting the mishap as a
fait accompli, tend to remain quadriplegics leading life in utter distress.
Isn’t it clear from the life of Christopher Reeve that
we can also cultivate ‘internal locus’ of control? All that we have to do is:
recognize the fact that one is always having a choice — a choice to pick a goal
and work towards it. Its accomplishment builds up self-confidence. This in turn
encourages one to acquire new knowledge and problem solving skills. Building up
of competency enables one to take decisions and work towards their successful
execution. And success breeds success—the cycle goes on.
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GRK Murty
Very inspiring article.
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